Family History Starter Workbook

My Starting Point Snapshot

You don’t need a complete family tree to begin. You need a clear picture of what you already know, what you want to learn first, and which research tasks feel comfortable right now. This snapshot keeps your first steps small and useful.

Set aside a pencil or pen, this workbook, and about 30 minutes. You may also want a folder or envelope for loose notes. You won’t need to search online yet. Today is about building a reliable starting point from your own memory and the information already within reach.

Learn What You Already Know

Begin with facts you can name without guessing. A full name, an approximate year, a town, or a family connection can all be useful. Mark uncertain details clearly instead of trying to make them sound exact. “About 1940” is more helpful than an incorrect year written as fact.

Use the worksheet below to make a quick inventory. Write one person, couple, or family line on each row. Include yourself, parents, grandparents, or another relative you want to understand. You are not creating a full tree here. You’re simply placing your known pieces on the table.

Your Turn: Known Facts Inventory

Complete at least eight rows. For each row, write something you know or remember. When you finish, every row should contain a name or family connection and at least one detail.

For example, you might write, “My grandfather, Luis Rodriguez, lived in New Mexico,” and mark “Fairly sure” if you heard it from a relative but haven’t checked a record. If you know only that someone was “Grandma’s older brother,” write that. Connections are clues, too.

Now separate facts from questions. Look back at your inventory and choose three details marked “Unsure” or three details that need more information. Turn each one into a clear question. A question should point toward one answer, not ask for an entire life story.

Your Turn: Known-to-Question Worksheet

Complete all three lines. Each question must include a person and a specific detail you want to confirm or discover.

A useful question might be, “What was Luis Rodriguez’s full birth date?” A question such as “Where did my family come from?” is too broad for a first task. You can narrow it to, “What town did Luis Rodriguez live in before New Mexico?” Clear questions make research easier because you’ll know when you’ve made progress.

Reflect: One-Sentence Starting Point

Write one sentence that describes your current knowledge without exaggerating it. Use this pattern:

“I know ______ about ______, but I still need to learn ______.”

Write your sentence here:

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You are finished with this section when you have completed eight inventory rows, written three specific questions, and finished the sentence. Keep these pages together. They show what you knew before new information began arriving - and that makes them valuable.

Set Your First Goals

A first goal should be small enough to finish and specific enough to recognize. “Research my family” is a meaningful wish, but it’s too large for a starting goal. “Find and confirm my grandmother’s maiden name” gives you a clear target.

Choose one person or family connection from your inventory. Then choose one detail about that person. For now, focus on a single answer. You can add another goal after you complete this one.

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