Arlene Hayse

So many times, I have fallen. But I always got back up, dusted myself off and kept going. No matter the circumstances or the challenges. There was always hope. I was discouraged at times. Every day we have the opportunity to start a new day. When you lay your head down on your pillow and fall asleep, if you awake the next day the restart button is reset. It's a new day and new beginnings.

It doesn't matter about the past. Just let the future guide you. Look to God for your answers. Stop letting just anyone speak into your ears. Learn about the Holy Spirit and receive it. Let the Holy spirit guide you throughout your day. Receive the fullness of what God has for you.

Joy comes in the morning, Psalm 30:5. That is because God sends it to you and you are given free will, free choice every day. You can receive the full blessings of God. If you focus on the positivity of what the day holds for you. Embrace yourself, show yourself love, and show yourself kindness.

There will be obstacles throughout your and in your life. Battle up with the full Armour of God. People will try you. There will be ones that pick at your happiness. Some want to live in their own misery. You have the choice to take what you have. Whether it be the bare minimum of a homeless person or a high society person with an apartment penthouse. The choice is yours. You can build something from nothing. You can start each day by learning to live again. Life begins when you let go and let God. Start living your best life now.

Say you found yourself where that person left you for someone else and it hurts. One day it will get easier. Let's be honest and ask the question whether you want that lying cheat in your life in the first place. He or she will eventually cheat on them. Would you want them lay in bed with you degrading everything about you? All the while they want to be somewhere else. That person is wasting your time and your energy.

In the time of separation of them not being there, what you will learn to realise is that you can be happy all by yourself. You can be happy in your own space and have peace back in your life. Go buy yourself some flowers like Miley did. Take yourself outside and get some fresh air. Look into the sunlight and grab a dose of natural vitamin D. Begin your new day, your new life, and be at peace with you walking away as a good person. Possibly that person that left was only holding you back from being the best person you can be. You can go with God and do anything in life.

Now if you have not spoken with God for a very long time. Then here is your chance to make amends and freshen up your relationship with God. Get back to spending more time in the word. The time you took caring for someone who never appreciated you, now you can make more time for prayer, for reading your bible, maybe take a class or two, or go to the gym, go for walks. Get yourself healthy inside and out. Give it all to God and eventually God can take you to a place of peace and gratitude.

Your fresh new day and fresh new life beginning again, you can take that quality time and renew your mindset. Clear all the clutter out. You can do this by getting into the word of God. Let God move back onto your life. Take a chance to spend more time in the word and let healing begin from the inside out. Growth in the word will start shining through.

So, by now you may be asking me how I know this, or why I know these things, and why I can suggest these things. I can tell you from the numerous times I have fallen on my face, the times I have had to start over again. Another failed relationship or having to find a new job. If you only knew how many doors that have been slammed in my face you would probably crumbled. In every time it happened even through all the hurt I still eventually got myself back on track. I would always get myself back to God. There were times God was already there showing up when everyone else turned their backs. In those moments God would take me to a whole new level with him.

I want you to get things in your head and get other things out of your head. You are not a failure. It takes falling down and loosing at times to learn new skills or get a different look at the circumstances. Let those times of falling ignite a fire in you to go do better and be a better person. Those bad people only showed how good of a person you can be. So go be the best person you can be because you have so much more to give. Help someone else get out of the same rut you used to be in.

I can't tell you if there may or may not be someone out there for you. I can say God is for you and not against you. If there is someone then that is between you and God. If your heart desires to be with someone then you should pray and ask God for guidance. Ask God to lead the right person your way. Also have yourself ready for that someone to show up.

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