Emily G.

We spend the first half of our lives building a persona based on everyone else’s expectations, and the second half trying to survive it. This book is an invitation to stop trying to "find" yourself and start undoing the layers of who you were told to be. I wanted to create a raw, honest roadmap for anyone ready to shed the expectations, heal the old patterns, and finally come home to who they truly are.

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Unbecome: A Journey Back To Yourself

Self-Help 5 chapters 8,786 words ~35 min read 39 reads

Your “yes” is costing you yourself. Unbecome helps you trace the expectations loop behind people-pleasing, audit the hidden contract in your feelings, and build boundaries with clarity, without guilt or betrayal. You will learn how to choose your needs, not other people’s comfort...

Chapters

1. Unmasking the Expectations Loop
2. Breaking the People-Pleasing Contract
3. Building Boundaries Without Guilt
4. Dismantling Fear-Based Identity
5. Choosing Your Purpose Through Unbecoming

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